I just read the blog of a mom who is georgeous is every possible way. But, I was so touched and moved to evaluate myself by what was said. Her "pops" wrote a little on her blog and it got me. Mr. & Mrs. R is in a righteous battle for their son. On September 11th "we" had a trial in which the sperm donor (really it was his mother, this "kid" could really careless--100% MY OPINION) is trying to stop the adoption of their little boy. It was a wild.
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As I look back on that day, I reflect on "the row of warriors." I don't think we thought that was who we were. We were just MOMS!! We represented, birthmoms, adoptive moms, and "natural" moms, who saw an injustice. And we were going to make it known that Gavin is with his family.
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His mother and father and his brother love him. His birthmother was there to testify on behalf of Mr. & Mrs. R. She was so beautiful and poised and a MOTHER WHO LOVES HER BOY. Loves him so much that she knew that he was to be parented by Mr & Mrs. R.
This is our little boy. We adopted him many years ago. I love him so much. He is ours. I can't imagine his birthfather, trying to disrupt our lives to try and remove him from our family. That is ridiculous. Just like it is for this "kid" to try and do this to Gavin. I am a STRONG supporter of adoption. I have been blessed by it. My family has been blessed by it. Therefore, I cannot sit by and not do nothing, especially if just the mere presence of us "warriors" is all that is needed.
So pray for the R family, the judge, Gavin and all birth family and adoptive families alike. This decision doesn't just effect one it effects ALL.

Love me Aiden and his lips for days!
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